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What should i say in a first email online dating

As an avid dater, online and off, and as someone who used to work for Dating Coach Evan Marc Katz, helping clients write their profiles, I saw many common online dating mistakes.

Here’s some of those online what-the-heck-do-I-write-in-a message dating dilemmas I hear about and a few key reminders.

Anyone can say they dance or read, but what kind of dancing and what kind of books?

Here’s an example straight from a guy's Ok Cupid profile: “I recently finished Augusten Burroughs’ Sellevision and just cracked open Freedom by Jonathan Franzen.

I also have a backlog of Atlantics to get through, but I might not win that literary battle.” See?

This guy gives us a lot to respond to, and prompts a discussion of books, authors, and reading without him even realizing it.

We’ve probably all “met” the online dater who messages us novellas (or maybe we used to be that person). Time and time again, friends of mine feel crushed when they build a strong rapport with someone in writing, yet when they meet, there’s no love connection.

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Always ask a question. It is hard for a man not to answer a question. Whether you are a match or not, you are taking control over your dating life and may have the opportunity to meet the man of your dreams. I have a saying when it comes to online dating, “Don't wait. Initiate.” Is it worth sending an email or two? I think so. 
15-Oct-2018 23:45
Oct 31, 2014. Even in a city as populated as New York, it's hard to find the type of guys I'm looking for—and online dating makes it much easier to narrow things down. At most, she suggests having five photos—and she says you should make the first three the strongest ones. Email her at [email protected] 
15-Oct-2018 23:50
You're afraid you'll turn him off if you wink, fav or message him first. Should Women Send The First Email. Ladies, dating rules have changed! Nowadays a woman doesn't necessarily alienate an online man when she emails or flirts with him first. In fact, some men say they like it when a woman makes the first move because. 
15-Oct-2018 23:52

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