Hapas dating hapas
I am biracial, with a chinese mother and a caucasian father.
Physically the only real asian things about me are my eyes and body stature, noticeable, but other than that I look pretty much caucasian.
As for background, my mother was a foreigner, and I was born and bred in the united states.
Throughout my life there were always chinese influences in the home, but it ends there (can’t speak chinese either, but learning! There is much helpful advice on the internet for caucasian women to get a chinese man, but I’ve never seen any for halfies such as myself.
Many Chinese shower half-Chinese, half-White people with the usual stereotypes (gorgeous and clever), but I’ve never heard or read anything on the subject of dating between Chinese men and women like yourself.When I searched the English-language Internet, I found some hapa sites, but few discussions on hapa women dating Asian men, let alone Chinese men.Still, I found a few things after sifting through some forums.Here’s a quote from a discussion titled “Dating Asian people while hapa”: I have met many Asian women who find Hapas very attractive- the exoticness factor thrown in with someone-you-can-take-home-to-mom I suppose. Like the black men and white women, it seems that some Asian men feel that to top off their success, they need a hapa girl.[Jocelyn’s note: maybe the “someone-you-can-take-home-to-mom” factor could apply with Chinese men? For the hapa girls in Asia, they are more in touch of their Asian roots and see all the whites their as bums….