Dating after college hard
Many of us have ended up feeling awful as a result of a college relationship, but never feel afraid to confide, get guidance, and treat yo'self!
With recent college grads facing enough stress after receiving their diplomas (finding a job and paying back student loans for example), it can appear to an insurmountable task to even locate eligible bachelors, nonetheless date them.
The simplest way to find a significant other after graduation is to step out of your comfort zone. Whether it’s a marathon training group or joining a sci-fi book club, get involved in something.
Volunteering, joining a club or even signing up for an intramural sports team are small ways to expand your circle and meet guys.
The great thing about meeting a potential suitor through a club or organization is that you know you share at least one interest.
It also creates a structured time and place to get to know him, instead of the pressure of having to schedule hangout time.
Although it might be tempting to drag a friend along as a safety buffer, it’s better to go solo.
Even though you’re ditching your friends to meet new men, feel free to also exploit your friends. But from experience, women love playing matchmaker and chances are you have one friend that knows the “perfect” guy for you.
If you still feel uncomfortable using close friends to meet guys, then close acquaintances are also a good place to start, especially if you they aren’t part of your usual inner circle.
By hanging with a new crew, you’re exposed to new people, which spices up the type of men you’ll meet.
Yes, you have to get over talking to the male sex while not looking your best, but who wants a guy who only likes you for your looks?
Getting a gym membership or attending fitness classes are prime opportunities to meet guys while getting in shape.
And even if you fail to meet a new dude, your toned body will definitely help in attracting other men to you.